I prefer to be doing something – creating, organizing, fixing, teaching, writing, surfing (not the water kind), list-making. Not really good at relaxing, although I count eating, reading, baking, yoga and napping in that category. Questioner and thinker. I cannot understand folks who believe something without considering “is this reasonable?” Easily irritated by stupidity, ignorance, immaturity and laziness. Rants are common. In the absence of children and my mother I swear a lot. That being said, I prefer to laugh, be positive and cheerful. When I’m not, people are generally afraid or think I must be ill. Am working on listening and “being present”. I love many people. Why not?? There are just so many people to love.